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Just ASK!
 Adam |
I know this sounds weird but…how do you know when the time is right to make the next move? To sex, kissing, whatever? There doesn’t seem to be any good way to tell. |
 Scott |
you just know. yer an idiot if you don’t. |
Adam |
Well, I guess I’m an idiot then…how do you know? |
 R.J. |
Ignore Scott – he’s just be'n scott. the best and only way to really know is to do the obvious...ASK! |
Adam |
You ask? Do you really? How sexy is that? Sounds like a quick way to kill any mood you’ve got going on. How do you bring that up? |
R.J. |
Askin consent can be sexy. and it’s not just about do’n it…it’s anything physical. If you care enough to ask what the girl wants, it shows you’re really into her and what she wants. if she says no, it’s prolly not about you, but that she isn’t ready or something like that. believe it or not, girls really love it when you ask! Any ladies wanna back me up? :-) |
 Nikki |
R.J.’s right – it would be soooo much better if people actually *asked* each other about sex, touching, kissing, whatever. i’d rather know it was coming and be okay with it then be caught off guard and not know what to do. i know too many girls (and probably some guys too!) who go along with things b/c they feel they should, not b/c they want to. if people just asked each other, it would get rid of a lot of this confusion. also, if you are really smooth, she might even tell you what she likes. *wink wink* ;-) |
Adam |
You all make it seem really easy simple, but I bet it’s a little harder to pull off. Sounds like the right idea tho – I guess it can’t hurt to try! Thanx |
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